Sunday, December 18, 2011

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Personal Challenge: My pains in life do not give me a free reign to lash out against those around me; they should instead give me empathy to understand other’s pain and allow me to recognize the symptoms of pain in those around me. So I’m challenging myself to give my pain over to God and to allow the pains of my past to help me empathize and connect with people instead of lashing out against them.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Trading in My Brokenness (Finding A Better Way)

Along the way I’ve discovered that each of us bear the scars of this world’s brokenness, deep wounds only God can heal. Recognizing the pain and suffering around me has opened my eyes, allowing me to see the hurt in others as the source of their anger and hate, giving me the opportunity to acknowledge that my own damage often clouds my judgment. This truth allows me to look past the hurt and pain inflicted by a sin-filled world and view others through the eyes of God’s love.

When I use my own broken life as a lens to view the world, my brokenness causes me to lash out at those around me. And, if I refuse to replace my “truth” with God’s Truth, I begin to expect pain and hurt, inviting it into my life and allowing it to become my new status quo—a dark and dangerous precedent.

Thankfully God has provided a better way. He invites me, no beseeches me to release my heavy burdens of pain and anguish, to give them to Him and to allow Him to restore my sight—giving me a new way of seeing the world.

Now, by using His corrective lenses, I recognize the hurt that causes that man to yell at his wife, the pain that causes my co-worker to retaliate against me, the anguish that puts those angry words in the mouth of the driver beside me, and the sorrow that encompasses the lives all around me. With God’s help, I can finally recognize that it is our brokenness that causes us to lash out against the world, hoping someone will notice our pain and do something to correct it.

So join me as I ask God to give me a new and tender heart, one that sees with the eyes of love and understanding instead of the eyes of selfishness and pain.

Final Thought: The truth is often veiled behind heavy curtains of pain and disappointment that we never bother to pull aside.

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Personal Epiphany: Happiness is a choice.

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Personal Challenge: With the myriad of choices available in this commercial-driven world, I am determined to choose Christ and Christ alone.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Choices (My Way or the Most High’s Way)

Along the way I’ve discovered that one of the things in life I have in abundance is choices. I can choose what time I get up; what to wear; how to wear my hair; how I greet people; if I smile, laugh, or frown; when I stand up; when I sit down; but most importantly, I can choose how I react to each situation in my life.

Most situations are a direct result of my choices (good or bad), but even in situations outside of my control I still have the opportunity to choose how I respond. I’ve discovered that it is this response that reveals my character, presenting opportunities for growth and development.

My bad choices often lead me to uncomfortable situations, but even in those difficult moments I still have an opportunity to choose to continue down the wrong road or to seize the opportunity to learn from my mistakes, thus paving the road to better choices in my future.

Even with this knowledge, my bad choices seem to come fast and furious, and despite my attitude of learning, I often find myself making the same mistakes over and over—always resulting in the same bad situations.

But there is good news. I am not alone and adrift, destine to continually repeat the mistakes of my past, because God promised to make me a new creation, replacing my heart of stone with a heart willing to serve Him—a heart ready to embrace good choices.

Thankfully, I serve a God Who not only forgives my mistakes, but gives me the power to reclaim my life. He leads me away from the mistakes of my dark, hurtful past, guiding me into the light of an eternal future with Him, a future filled with good choices—the most important of which is the choice to serve Him in all I do.

So join me as I turn my past over to God and allow Him to lead me into my future. Join me as I choose to follow His will instead of mine. Join me as I realize that only when I follow God’s path for me can I truly blossom into the person He created me to be.

Final Thought: Choices are golden opportunities for me to grab God’s hand, allowing Him to lead my life into eternal joy.

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Personal Epiphany: Singing sincere songs of praise can soothe even the most troubled heart.

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Personal Challenge: I’m determined to spend more time counting my blessings and less time counting my worries.